I Got That A Lot

Hye guys!!

Did you ever experience the situation when your brooches gradually decrease from time to time?

You did…?? Oh yes..same goes to me!! Either my friends or my siblings they always told me that I am such a forgetful young lady. I always wondering where are my brooches hidden. I got that a lot, a lot and a lot!!! Haha….

For your information, every month I will buy brooches and for me it is very difficult to buy them. Yes, I admit that I am a picky person. Whatever things I’m going to buy, I will take a lot of times to do so.  I will buy new brooches because they are always missing. I don’t know where they are. Maybe they fall when I’m walking, maybe my siblings use them or maybe someone had stole my brooches. Then, when my brooches lost I will mad to everyone. For me, brooches are very important. Without brooches, I can’t wear my scarf completely. It’s over right…?? Hahaha…

Last Saturday, my sister and I went to town. We went there to buy books, stationary and some more. After buying those things, we went to Cempaka Café to fill our stomach. We ordered two plates of nasi lemak and two glasses of ice lemon tea…Oh you know what..?? They were so scrumptious!!! You have to try it too, okay..?? Okay out of topic, sorry guys!! Haha..

Actually, what I want to tell you is I forget where I put my brooches. After we back home, I put the brooches on the bed and that evening, my mother asked me to accompany her to the shop to buy some vegetables. When I wanted to wear the scarf, I found that my brooches were gone. I didn’t have any idea where I put them before. I asked my sister if she took my brooches but she didn’t.Then, I asked my younger sister. The answer was same. She didn’t took mine. Ohhhh, that time I was totally stressed. My mother told me to find that brooches again carefully. I had searched them at every corner of my room and they were gone. Lastly, I was fed up. I wore my mother’s Ariani scarf. At shop, I didn’t talk too much. My mood was down. My mother laughed when she looked at me. I am so childish, right..?? hahaha…

After my mother done buying her things, we immediately went home. I went straight to my room and laying on my bed. Suddently, I felt something under my blanket. It felt like something small and sharp. I open my blanket and you know what it was..?? yessss…. That were my brooches!!! Ahhh…why I didn’t remembered that I put them here….I even laughed to myself…why I’m always being forgetful… What my friends and my siblings say are right. I am forgetful person…hahahaha

So, the moral value here is please provide an appropriate place to put your brooches. Don’t be like me okay..?? hahahaha… okay guys, bye!!!

Making Judgement

MAKING JUDGEMENT

They sound really serious right..??I'm sure when you read this title, you will imagine a lawyer, defendant, criminal, and witness fight at the court...Yes, I am that person. You share the same thought with me!!..haha..

For your information, making judgement is not only required at the court, it is also used at every situation and place. Making judgement is a process where someone try to make assumption to what they saw or heard. For example, if they saw people with sloppy appearance, they will think that the person is lazy and foolish. If they saw someone with neat appearance, they will think the person is hardworking, brilliant and has career. It could be that the person with sloppy appearance is actually a hardworking person. Maybe he looks like that because he just returned from his workplace as he works as engineer. Then, it also make sense if the person with neat appearance is a lazy person. Maybe he looks neat because he loves shopping by using his parent's money without having a job. So, it is not good for you to do that things. Before we judge people, we have to find out the truth. Don't get easily making assumption without having good reasons.

Let me share with you a short story about judgement. The story is interesting and it teaches me to be a better person while making judgement. I also hope you will enjoy the story and can get the value of that story..... 

Long ago, there lived an old man in a village. He was very poor, but even kings were jealous of him because he had an exceptionally beautiful white horse. Many kings offered fabulous prices for the horse, but the man would say, "This horse is more like a family member to me. How can you sell a member of the family?" The man was poor, but he never sold the horse.

One morning, he found that the horse was not in the stable. Upon hearing the news, all the villagers gathered outside the old man's house and started saying angry words to him like, "You foolish old man! We knew that someday, the prized horse would be stolen. It would have been better if you had sold it. What a misfortune!"

The old man said, "Don’t go so far as to say that. Simply say that the horse is not in the stable. That is a fact; everything else is an opinion. Whether it is a misfortune or a blessing I do not know, because this is just a portion of the complete picture. Who knows what is going to follow next?"

People laughed at the old man. They had always thought that he was a little crazy. But after fifteen days, suddenly one night, the horse returned. It had not been stolen, but had just escaped for a while into the woods. Not only did it come back, but it also brought a dozen other beautiful, wild horses with him.

Upon hearing this, again the people of the village gathered outside the old man’s house and started praising him thus, "Old man, you were right! This was not a misfortune; it has in fact, proved to be a blessing!"

The old man said, "Again you are going too far. Just say that the horse is back, who knows whether it is a blessing or not? It is only a part of the complete picture. How can you judge a whole book by only reading one sentence from it?"

This time, the people could not say much, but they were quite sure that the old man was wrong not to be dancing with joy. Twelve beautiful horses had come to him, along with his legendary horse, without any effort!

Now the old man had a son, who started training the wild horses. However, only a week later, the son fell from one of the horses and broke his legs! Upon hearing this, the people again gathered outside the old man’s house and again they judged. They said, "Again, you were proved right, you old, wise man! The coming of the twelve horses was nothing but a great misfortune! Your only son has lost his legs and now in your old age, since he was your only support, you have no one to take care of you. Oh, this has left you poorer than ever!"

The old man said to them, "You are obsessed with judgement! There is no need to go that far. Say only that my son has broken his legs. Nobody knows whether this is a misfortune or a blessing. Life comes in portions and the entire picture is never given to us."

After a few weeks, their country went to war and all the young men of the village were forcibly enrolled into the military. Only the old man’s son was left behind, as he was crippled. The whole village was crying and weeping because it was a losing fight and they were sure that most of the young men of the village would never come back. They came to the old man and said to him, "You were right again, old man. Your son’s accident has indeed proved to be a blessing. Maybe your son is crippled, but he is still with you! Our sons are gone forever."

The old man said again, "You go on and on judging. Nobody knows! Only say this that your sons have been forced to enter into the army and my son has not been forced. But only God knows whether it is a blessing or a misfortune."

Moral: If one has faith in the Lord, one does not judge the events in one’s life, but instead is assured that all events occur as per the Lord’s wish.

A movie based on a true story that inspired me

Hi there!!! Thanks for coming to my blog again :)

Guys, do you ever watch a korean drama entitle Jang Ok Jung..??

What?? You didn't see it yet!!

Ohh, you would be so much regret if you don't watch it.... You know what??I really love that drama!! The hero and the heroin are so pretty and handsome!!!hahahaahaaaa.......

Actually, Jang Ok Jung is the true based story. It is about Jang Ok Jung, known as Lady Jang Hee Bin, one of Korea’s best known royal concubines of the Joseon Dynasty. She is famous because of her hunger for power and ruthless plotting. However, this drama told a completely new interpretation of the infamous royal concubine Lady Jang Hee Bin and show the story before she became a concubine including how her involvement as a fashion designer and cosmetics-maker during that era. This drama also highlight the love story between Jang Ok Jung and Lee Soon which is King Sook Jong.

For your information, I had watch this drama for 2 times in a week. My mother also join me until the end of this drama.  It's very rare to see mother watch korean drama with that excited, right?? But that's the reality!! hahhahaaa....

I love to watch that drama because it shows lots of values. Firstly, the determination of a woman to change her poor life to a better life. At first, Jang Ok Jung was just a slave's daughter. She always been bullied by other children. She couldn't stand to see her mother got mad by the master.  So, because of that she promised to her mother that she would do anything as long as she and her mother will have happy lives. I really admire her attitude that is not easily give up when faced the challenges. It helps me to be more confident and don't let anyone to stop me from achieving my dreams.




The story also teaches me about loyalty. When Jang Ok Jung and Lee Soon met for the first time, they already falling in love. She faced a lot of troubles because of her love towards a king of Joseon country but she wills to sacrifice herself to protect that love. That was so touching as my mother and I cried while watching that part....hahahahaha....



In addition, we have to always be good to others. When we treat people with kindness, the people also treat us with kindness. Then, we will have a lot of friends and have a happy life. This value is showed through Jang Ok Jung's friends whose are always help and be with her when she faced the problems. Because of her kindness, love of the king towards her also stronger within the days. She really inspired me a lot!!! 

Other than that, we have to obey the King's order. If we disobey the order, we will get punished. That happen in this drama when Lee Soon's uncle got sentenced to death while he trying to betray his Majesty.Can you imagine that the members of King's family also willing to do that thing...?? That is so embarrassing!!

Okay,enough. Guess I will stop here. Do watch the movie if you want to figure out the whole details. I'm sure if you watch this drama, you are going to watch it again and again. So. don't forget to watch it!!!!!
Tataaaaaa..........    

How would your life be different if you have ten children?

My life would be absolutely different if I have ten children. Do you know why? It's because I need to spent a lot of money to buy milk for my children. Each of them need to have enough nutrients for their growth.So, during their childhood, I need to buy milk every month.

Then, my body will no longer look good like when  I was a teenager. I will get fat!!! Normally, after married and having children women will easily gain their weight. Because of that, lots of husband will have another scandal or the most worst is they will divorce their wives as their wives are not beautiful like other women..huhh.. I really hate men like that!!! As a husband, he should understand his wife's condition. Maybe they can motivate or support their wives to become slim again. Someday, when I'm going to marry, I will make sure that I will find a loyal man that will accept all my imperfections..So, the man that want or will to marry me please behave yourself!!!...hahahahhaaa... Okay, back to the topic.

Other than that, my husband and I have to built a big house maybe like a castle. It is because, there will be 10 bedrooms, big living room, big kitchen and five toilets. Arrgghhh...I need a lot of money to built that house!!! Starting today, I think I have to work harder in order to built that house....hahhhahahaaaa......

Besides, I need to cook dishes in large quantity either during breakfast, lunch or dinner. If I cook little, my children will fight among themselves because they didn't get enough food. Plus, they will become slim and easily exposed to disease. All mother want their children to be healthy, right?? Same goes to me.

Another difference is maybe I need to stop working and just be a housewife. So that, I can take care of my children very well. I don't have to spent money a lot by hiring the babysitter to look after my children.I can send them to school everyday, I can shower them every morning before they go to school and I can also get to know every development of my children.. That will make me become a good mother to my children and also a good wife to my husband...hahhaaahhahaa....

The situation will also gonna be different as I don't feel lonely during my life. Besides husband, I have my children that will always be with me during my good and bad times. Truthfully, when you are having problems, just be with your love ones then you are able to calm yourself. Trust me. It really works!!

In addition, my husband and I need to buy a big car so that all of my children can board the car. That will make our vacation become meaningful and we will gonna have a happy family time together.

Moreover, my life will completely change if I have 10 children because I need to wash a lot of clothes every day. Can you imagine if all dirty shirts of my children are gathered together..?? I pretty sure that those shirts will be like Mount Kinabalu…haha….so funny isn’t??…..that is one of the challenges that I have to face if I have ten children

Then, my husband will not love me lots like before. I bet that if I really give birth to ten children, my husband wouldn’t spend enough time with me. He will have a lot of times with our children. Then, he will leave me alone at the kitchen to cook…..so sad!!!! I don’t want something like that happen in my life….uwaaaaa……okay stop it!! I’m just joking….hahhahaa…..

Lastly, another difference that will happen to my life is I have to go to my children’s school often. It is because, there will be a lot of meetings with pupil’s parents and I have to attend that meeting for each of my children. Soon, I think all teachers will know me very well because I go to school very often but I think that will be great because I will be a popular mother at the school!!!......hahhahhahhaaaa…. so ridiculous…..

Okay that’s all guys!!

Bye!!!

10 tips on how to be confident to speak in English

Hello guys!!

Thanks for visit my blog again. I feel so happy and touched….haha….just joking. Did you remember my recent blog? It’s all about my challenges that I faced in order to acquire English, right?? Okay now, let me share with you some tips on how to be confident to speak in English. Actually these tips are very simple and easy for you to practise them unless you are lazy or not interested to do that…haha… I would be very happy if these tips can help you and also me to improve our confident to communicate in English.

First of all, you need to have interest in learning English language. If you are not,just forget it! How do you want to good in English if you’re not interested in that language, right??…so, you need to have that love towards English language!!

Then, you need to have a high confident level in yourself. Don’t be shy or scared to make mistakes while speaking because you are trying to improve your English language. Just ignore the people that laugh at you because of your mistakes instead take it as your challenge to show them that someday you will be a good English speaker. So then, they will respect you. 

Next, you need to have a lot of communications as much as possible. It is up to you whether you want to have it with your friends, siblings, teachers, parents or strangers. This will make you become a friendly person plus help you to lessen your shyness when communicate with others.

Then, practise listen to English songs. Do it at least one song per day. It is better for you to listen English songs because you can learn how the singer pronounces the words and you can also learn the new words from that songs. 

In addition, you are encouraged to read any materials like books, novels, newspapers or magazines in English. They contain a lot of new words and you can also observe on how grammar and techniques are used in the sentences.

 Moreover, read out loud when reading the book because it will help to improve your pronunciation. You can also watch English movies on-line with English subtitles because at the same time, you can improve your listening and reading skills.

Next tip is copy new words that you had found in your book. Spell the words everyday until you know how to pronounce it and remember their meanings. This tip will increase your vocabulary. 

After that, you need to have a translation dictionary. Dictionary is very important because you will need it when you don’t know certain words. So, go buy your dictionary now!!...hahaha….

Another tip is attend English class. Asked your parent to get you the class from the experienced teachers. During the class, the teachers will teach you on grammar, pronunciation and so on that are very useful to polish your English language.

Erm…..okay guys! I think that’s all the tips that I can share with you. I hope that these tips are effective and useful for you to be more confident to speak English. So, good luck and have a nice day!! ;)

10 challenges that I faced in acquiring English

Hye guys!!

Nice to see you again. Are you feeling well right now? I hope you guys are in the pink of health.This time, I am going to share with you about my challenges or problems that I faced through out these days in acquiring English language. Arghh!! Actually I am not good enough in English. Everyday when I was trying to speak in English, I felt something was preventing me from doing it. This situation really ruin my mood.

One of my challenges is lack of confident. As students, we have a lot of activities, assignments or presentations that required us to speak English in front of the audiences. We have to speak well and confidently in order to have better results.But for me, when I am standing in front of the audiences I feel so shy. I don't have enough confident to speak English in front of them because I think that if I talk wrongly, the people will laugh at me. That is the embarrassing moment for me.

For your information, I am lacking in vocabulary. Sometimes when I speak English, I have sentences in my mind but I am missing two or three important vocabulary words. So, it become difficult for me to say what I am thinking. Then, I also poor in pronunciation. When I read or talk something loudly, my pronunciation seem a little bad. Sometimes people did not understand to what I am saying and they will ask me to tell them again. It keeps bothering me. Plus, I am not major in grammar...huhuhu...sad of me...

Besides, for the certain words they have different meanings. For example, run. My cat loves to run about in the park. The word run there means moves quickly with legs but in certain sentences, run brings out the different meaning like manages.She runs a very successful business. 

In addition, there are some people think that I am arrogant person when speaking in English. They said that I want to show off  with my ability..arhh.. that was so frustrating having these kind of people nowadays. That's why I think it is better if I just speak Malay to everyone.

 Besides, there are lots of slang and colloquial language used when English is spoken.It is varies from country to another country. So, when I watch movies I can't understand well what they are saying.

Scare of making mistakes is also one of the challenges that I faced in acquiring English. I was so scared to speak in English because I know that I am not good enough in English. Surely, I will make a lot of mistakes in my conversation..hahaha..so, the best way for me is just talk in Malay to my friends and also with my English teacher.

Sometimes, I am bad in spelling the words. At school, when the teacher asked me to write an essay, there must be spelling errors. Although I often use that words in conversation, I did not remember how to write them correctly...hahaha...so ridiculous, right??

Last but not least is homophones. I often confused with the words that are different in meaning but similar in pronunciation. For the ones that do not used to these words surely will get into problem when speaking. All of you have experienced this problem before, right?? same goes to me!!

Thus, I should do a lot of practices to solve my problems. I really hope that someday, I will be able to speak English fluently.

The New Me

Hye everyone!!

Nice to meet all of you. Actually this is my first time having a blog, so I do not have any idea to write a post. But I will try my best to make all of you interested to read my post. First and foremost, let me introduce myself. I am pretty sure that some of you already know me well. For the ones who do not know me yet just feel free to read my story. My actual name is Mas Muharami binti Zulkifle.To make it easier, just call me Mas. I was born on 9 May 1997 at Hospital Sultanah Nurzahirah Kuala Terengganu. My mother had once told me that among my siblings, I was the one who born late from the due date and because of that, my mother was having difficulties while delivered me. When I was hearing to that story, I felt so touching. That memorable story really make me proud of my mother. As a mother, she was willing to sacrifice herself just to make sure that I can be born to this wonderful world.

I have a lovely and caring parent. My father’s name is Zulkifle bin Ali and he works as a rubber tapper. My mother’s name is Kholeeyoh E-sor and she is just a housewife. Maybe my family and I do not live rich like other family but we are so happy. We care and love to each other.

For your information, I have eight siblings and I am the fourth one. The oldest is a girl and she got married about four years ago. She already has a son whose is three years old and her son is very naughty that can make others feel so mad with him. I still remembered when he was two years old, he bit my finger until bleeding. I was so angry then I scolded him. He cried so loud. After that, my sister scolded me back for what had I done. Remembering those moments really make me laugh because of my ‘immature action’…… Hahaha…..

My second and third siblings are also girls. Now, the second one is working as a nurse at Hospital Sungai Buloh, Selangor. Anybody who is interested to know my beautiful sister can just go there and meet her….. Hahaha…... But please bear in your mind that she is a fierce girl. She will easily get mad although it just a simple mistake. The third one is still studying at Kota Bharu, Kelantan taking Early Childhood Education course.

As you already know, I am the fourth. Now, I am studying at Tatiuc, Kemaman and I am doing the preparation to go to overseas in medical course for one year. Actually, my ambition is I want to be a doctor that are specialised in Obstetrics and Gynaechology. It is because I love to help people and I very love kids. Besides, nowadays our country is lack of woman doctor that are specialised in that field. So, if I can catch my dream, I can lessen the burden of that problem. Let me tell you a little bit about my result in UPSR, PMR and SPM. I am telling you these not to show off myself but just as motivation to the readers. In 2009, I got 4A 1B in my UPSR. That day, I was so sad and shocked because my teachers, parent and also me thought that I will get 5A’s. I was so down because of my result but my parents always gave me support and advices. They told me that it was okay because maybe it was not my lucky day. All I had to do was not gave up and kept trying. Remember Allah always and keep in touch with Him. In Shaa Allah, He will give me something better than I wished. After that, I struggled in my studies until I got 8A’s in PMR and 10A’s in SPM. After I got my result, I was so happy and grateful. Lastly, all of my hardworks are worth. My parent, teachers and friends were so proud of me. I could not express that moment in words on how happy I am. My friend always told me that ‘there’s no one can change yourself unless you change it by yourself’ and that phrase really inspired me a lot.

Next, proceed to my fifth sibling. My fifth sibling is a girl which is 16 years old and she is studying at SMK Tengku Mizan Zainal Abidin together with my sixth sibling which is a boy. He is 15 years old. At school, I often heard some gossips that there were a few girls trying to flirt with him. They once told me that my younger brother is so handsome and that make me feel disgusting…‘eee yulks!!’…. But it is okay, maybe his handsomeness comes from his sister… Hahaha…..

Then, my seventh and eighth siblings are still child. They are eight and five years old. They are studying at SK Maras. I was so grateful to have such this big and happy family. I always hope that our happiness will be last longer hereafter. Amiinn. I think this is enough for my first post. For the next post I will share about another story. So, I hope all of you will enjoy my first post and wait for my another post. Bye guys!!